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A Father's Fake Death for Faraway Love w/ Jay Jurden

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

About this Episode

Laci welcomes back comedian Jay Jurden (Yes Ma’am) to break down the scam of shrinkflation at stand-up comedy shows and to unpack the bizarre true story of Ryan Borgwardt, a Wisconsin cabinetmaker who faked his own death in a kayaking accident, abandoning his wife and three kids to start a new life with an Eastern European woman he met online. Stay schemin’!

CON-gregation, catch Laci's TV Show Scam Goddess, now on Freeform and Hulu!

Keep the scams coming and snitch on your friends by emailing us at ScamGoddessPod@gmail.com.

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Jay Jurden: @jayjurden

Research by Kathryn Doyle 

SOURCES

https://abcnews.go.com/US/lie-wisconsin-kayaker-faked-drowning-fled-country-told/story?id=125419190

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/us-news/candid-comments-kayaker-who-faked-35878304

https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/wisconsin-ryan-borgwardt-wife-georgia-b2823424.html

https://www.wisn.com/article/wife-of-wisconsin-man-accused-of-faking-his-own-death-files-for-divorce-missing-kayaker/63173392

https://www.wisn.com/article/i-kept-going-wisconsin-husband-details-how-he-faked-his-own-death/66030235

https://www.cnn.com/2025/08/26/us/wisconsin-missing-kayaker

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    SOURCES

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    SOURCES:

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    https://www.tasteofhome.com/article/tiktok-viral-pink-sauce/

    https://www.eater.com/23284219/pink-sauce-tiktok-color-expert-reactions

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    Research by Kathryn Doyle 

     

    SOURCES

    https://abc7.com/post/woman-used-dating-apps-target-men-burglarize-la-county-homes-authorities-say/17968915/

    https://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/adva-lavie-dating-app-burglary-suspect-business-theft-los-angeles/3790816/

    https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/woman-uses-dating-apps-find-elderly-men-burglarizes-homes-rcna236857

    https://www.savannahnow.com/story/news/2025/11/13/why-was-akon-arrested-in-georgia-what-to-know-about-rb-superstar/87245884007/

    https://www.theguardian.com/music/2023/dec/04/akon-city-tumbleweed-rolls-through-site-of-rappers-wakanda-inspired-dream

    https://x.com/dom_lucre/status/1957495751484796969?s=42

    https://consequence.net/2025/08/justin-bieber-impersonator-vegas-stage/

    https://www.vice.com/en/article/justin-bieber-lookalike-tricked-a-vegas-nightclub-into-letting-him-perform-allegedly-racked-up-10k-bill-before-getting-kicked-out/

    https://www.tallahassee.com/story/news/local/2025/07/24/chuck-e-cheese-arrest-by-tallahassee-police-photos-video/85355422007/

    https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/29/us/chuck-e-cheese-costume-arrest-fraud.html

    https://www.scmp.com/news/people-culture/trending-china/article/3275270/snubbed-china-shopper-makes-luxury-shop-staff-count-us84000-cash-2-hours-leaves

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    Research by Kaelyn Bryant  

     

    SOURCES

    https://www.cnn.com/style/article/egypt-gold-coffin-of-nedjemankh-trnd/index.html#:~:text=An%20ancient%20gold%20coffin%20displayed,Office%20in%20a%20statement%20Wednesday

    https://deadline.com/2022/10/john-oliver-recognizes-kim-kardashian-influence-helping-solve-art-fraud-scheme-1235133309/

    https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna18300507

    https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2005-aug-17-me-brito17-story.html

    https://www.taosnews.com/news/crime/the-pancake-con-man/article_c469819b-b018-5348-ae2d-af20a9ebfe75.html

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Laci Mosley
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Laci Mosley

Laci Mosley is a Black American actor, comedian, and podcaster. She performs improv comedy at UCB Los Angeles and is a series regular in Season 2 of HBO's "A Black Lady Sketch Show," and in the ShowMax comedy series "Florida Girls." She is also a cast member in Paramount+'s "iCarly" reboot and a contributor on ABC's "The Con."

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