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1. Friday, March 17, 2023

   Being 'In Like' vs Being 'In Love' (w/ Gabrielle Dennis)

   Comedian and actress Gabrielle Dennis (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Luke Cage) chats with Nicole her philosophy as to why falling "in like" with your partner is more important than being in love, opens up about her experience dating a pedophile, and her love for writing Yelp reviews. Plus, the story of the murdering Disney dad. 

    

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2. Friday, March 10, 2023

   Mormon and Closeted (w/ Bridger Winegar)

   Writer Bridger Winegar (host of I Said No Gifts!)  joins Nicole to discuss his experience being closeted to himself until the age of 26, being raised Mormon, and the thrill of setting people up on dates. Nicole reads some nasty messages she's received from the Bahamas.

    

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3. Friday, March 3, 2023

   Marrying Your High School Sweetheart (w/ Adam Pally)

   Comedian Adam Pally (101 Places to Party Before You Die, Who Invited Charlie?) chats with Nicole about why an easy relationship is a often sign of a good one, marrying his high school sweetheart, and how the both of them broke Steve Harvey on the set of Celebrity Family Feud. Plus, what's it like filming with Sonic the Hedgehog? Nicole is dying to know. 

    

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4. Friday, February 24, 2023

   Being The Only One Left (w/ Michael Cruz Kayne)

   Comedian Michael Cruz Kayne's dating strategy involves being the only guy left available. He joins Nicole to explain the approach and the success that's come with it.  They also discuss how race affects relationships, moving on from them, and his experience getting hit on by the rich kids and moms he was private tutoring. Nicole wishes she was a ~woman~.

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5. Friday, February 17, 2023

   Dating a Groupie (w/ Steph Tolev)

   Comedian Steph Tolev joins Nicole to discuss what it's like to date a groupie, getting matching tattoos with her partners, her experience dating a 60 year old, and shares SOOO many crazy awful dating stories. Plus, is it weird if your parent keeps in touch with your ex? The answer is YES.

    

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6. Friday, February 10, 2023

   Having Sex On-Camera (w/ Jordan Firstman)

   Comedian Jordan Firstman (Big Mouth, Ms. Marvel) joins Nicole to talk about his experience being involved in a threesome where everyone had COVID, having real sex on-camera for a movie, and finding love in Berlin after a drug-fueled bender. Plus, Nicole shares why sucking dick is so joyful. 

    

   Disclaimer: This episode contains discussion of homophobia, including some strong language, such as the F word.

    

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7. Friday, February 3, 2023

   Celibate for 18 Years (w/ Debra DiGiovanni)

   Comedian Debra DiGiovanni joins Nicole to discuss her experience being single and celibate for 18 years, importing her current boyfriend, and shares what it was like to date a feeder. 

   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.

    

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8. Friday, January 27, 2023

   Nicole's Boyfriend Speaks His Truth (w/ Dan Black)

   In January, Nicole shocked the world with an Instagram post announcing her relationship with comedian Dan Black. On this episode,  Dan joins Nicole to respond to some of the comments they've received about their relationship, discuss their kinks, and reflect on their decision to hard launch the relationship. 

    

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9. Friday, January 20, 2023

   The Sex Lives of Artists (w/ Ilia Isorelýs Paulino)

   Actress Ilia Isorelýs Paulino (The Sex Lives of College Girls)  joins Nicole to chat about her sex life at Yale, being 6′2, growing up brainwashed by her pastor dad, and Curvy Wife Guy's new rap career.

    

   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.

    

   Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.   

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10. Friday, January 13, 2023

    Pandemic Divorce (w/ Punkie Johnson)

    Comedian Punkie Johnson (SNL) joins Nicole to discuss how the pandemic lead to her divorce,  learning to love her partner's ugly feet, and tiddy pain. Nicole reports on the unhappy couples she witnessed while in the Bahamas. 

     

    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.

     

    Black Lives Matter.  Click here for an updated list of over 100 different things you can do to support racial justice.   

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